I've been doing very well regarding the end of the relationship with MissG. Resisting the temptation to contact her and on the odd occasion she's contacted me I've kept things brief and to the point. I'm not being rude. Just taking time to get over it and giving MissG time to work out what she wants. Well there's a party that we're both invited to Saturday week. So to save any embarrassment I text MissG to find out if she wanted to go. Which she does. So far so good. She didn't sound too good (don't forget I was the one dumped) so I asked if she was ok and gave a few words of support. Well lots of words to be honest. I'd hate to see her sad , I love her deeply. Then I made a mistake and finished off with "I miss you" (which I do) but maybe it should have remained unsaid, for the moment.
It was my only mistake of the day. That said maybe mistakes get us to where we need to be as much as the right decisions do. Either way I'll forgive myself :-)
Onwards and upwards in the pursuit of happyness :-)
Blimey, years of dating and relationships and it doesn't get any easier does it Spanner! Know that feeling.
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